You just can’t trust anyone!” seems to be a constant refrain in the modern world. Indeed, learning to trust is one of life’s most difficult lessons. “That’s because trust is not a verb,” says legendary life coach Iyanla Vanzant, “it’s a noun. Trust is a state of mind and a state of being.”
“When we learn to trust others, it supports and eases the difficulty of life’s most challenging experiences. Trusting others gives you something to hold on to when it feels as if change is sucking the life out of you,” Iyanla says.
Too often our fear of whether or not we can really trust an individual or an institution and what they represent erodes our confidence and undermines our relationships. When trust is broken or there is a betrayal, it can bring us face-to-face with our shadow, revealing that someone has failed to live up to our expectations and thus “outs” our hidden beliefs. “You never get what you ask for; you always get what you expect,” says Iyanla. When someone betrays our trust it reveals the high price paid for such deep disconnection.
The pragmatic trust-building prescriptions featured in the book demonstrate how communication, consistency, and cooperation can remedy trust-destroying behaviors, revitalize us with increased authenticity, greater resilience, and renewed peace in every part of our lives.
TRUST: Mastering the 4 Essential Trusts is available on December 8th, 2015. For more information please visit www.iyanlatrustlife.com
About Iyanla Vanzant
From welfare mother to New York Times best-selling author, from the Brooklyn projects to Emmy Award winner, from broken pieces to peace, Iyanla Vanzant is one of the country’s most prolific writers and public speakers, and among the most influential, socially engaged, and acclaimed spiritual life coaches of our time. Host and executive producer of the breakout hit Iyanla: Fix My Life on OWN: Oprah Winfrey Network, Iyanla Vanzant’s focus on faith, empowerment, and loving relationships has inspired millions around the world. A woman of passion, vision, and purpose, Iyanla is also the co-founder and executive director of Inner Visions for Spiritual Development.
About Hay House, Inc.
Hay House, founded in 1984 by Louise Hay, is the international leader in self-help and motivational publishing. Hay House features books, audios, courses and events by more than 300 authors and has a self-publishing division called Balboa Press. Please visit www.hayhouse.com.